Make the message feel like you.
Match the closeness of the message to your relationship. A partner might appreciate ‘I wish I could give you a goodnight hug’; a colleague may prefer ‘Wishing you a restful evening.’ If someone has had a difficult day, acknowledge it without insisting they feel positive.
Deep blue, lavender or a softly lit sky can give the card a quiet feeling. Keep the message easy to read against a dark background, and use decorations sparingly. The greeting should feel like a gentle sign-off, without a question that demands an immediate reply.
A few thoughtful examples
Good night. Sending a little warmth your way as the day settles down.
You’ve been on my mind today. Wishing you comfort and a quiet night.
Sleep well, my love. I’m looking forward to another little moment with you tomorrow.
Small personal touches
- Avoid promising sleep or recovery to someone who is struggling.
- Send before their usual bedtime, or let the message wait.
- A moon or a single star can be all the decoration needed.